eye-rolls.

here is some sarcasm:

i love love love it when people from my past cling to the things i did wrong just enough to make vaguely bitchy commentaries about me, as if anyone we mutually know has no clue who they are talking about. sadly, those people also seem to cling to other things that make them unable to let go of what was obviously not working. if your life is fucked, it is not my fault. especially after all this time. i take responsibility for my mistakes (and yes, yes i did admit where i fucked up, but some people refuse to admit where they were wrong) so maybe it's time for some folks to move along and stop obsessing over what i am doing or posting about. i extended apologies that were not accepted. that is the best i can do.

what is really great is that enemies are the only people who seem to believe that one cannot change or that things cannot possibly be different the next time around. they do, they have, they are. sorry if that is not what you want to hear.